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| "Time doesn't matter. Each time we see each other, it's wonderful.." - Gaurau from Sex and The City 2 |
Gaurau is Carrie Bradshaw's butler at the hotel where the STC girls are staying and while he was warming the milk for Carrie, he suggested adding cinnamon as he had learned from his wife that it tastes good. She agreed and apologized for not dismissing him earlier (as the butler stays until he is dismissed). Gaurau said it's ok as his wife is in India and they only see each other every three months. Carrie asked if it's hard not seeing each other for a long time and he said that line.
I was with BB at her room watching Sex and the City 2 while eating lunch when I heard this line. It perfectly describes how I feel whenever I see my husband after a long time. Even if we are separated for so long, you'd think we'll act like strangers or worse lose whatever feelings we've had when we were together but no, it's like he never left and yeah, feelings do change. I feel that I love him more. Call me a lovesick fool but for the 5 years we are married (well, not counting the time when we met and were friends that'll add another 2 years), we are still thriving in this thing called Long Distance Relationship.
When he first became my Boyfriend, he was in Caloocan, Manila while I was living in Sorsogon City in the Bicol Region. I went to Manila three months into our relationship to work and was able to see him regularly. When we got married in 2005, he had to leave for Dubai and I was 6 months pregnant that time. That was the worst time of my life. It felt like I was being abandoned but we have to do it for our baby. I've heard many stories where spouses become unfaithful while they are overseas and I was a little scared. I would remind myself that for the 3 years I have known my husband then, he never, EVER made promises that he cannot deliver or say things he doesn't mean. He said he always wants to see me smile and he makes me. We chat weekly on his Off even though he has to ride a bus for an hour just to go to an internet cafe and he texts at least 3 times a week (load is expensive). Then came the last week of September, 2006 where a week after typhoon Milenyo struck, Michael surprised us all by walking in the front door. He kissed me and there was nothing quite like it. It was a passionate kiss filled with a year of longing. After a month of pure bliss, he had to go back. There goes my heart again...
To be continued....
When he first became my Boyfriend, he was in Caloocan, Manila while I was living in Sorsogon City in the Bicol Region. I went to Manila three months into our relationship to work and was able to see him regularly. When we got married in 2005, he had to leave for Dubai and I was 6 months pregnant that time. That was the worst time of my life. It felt like I was being abandoned but we have to do it for our baby. I've heard many stories where spouses become unfaithful while they are overseas and I was a little scared. I would remind myself that for the 3 years I have known my husband then, he never, EVER made promises that he cannot deliver or say things he doesn't mean. He said he always wants to see me smile and he makes me. We chat weekly on his Off even though he has to ride a bus for an hour just to go to an internet cafe and he texts at least 3 times a week (load is expensive). Then came the last week of September, 2006 where a week after typhoon Milenyo struck, Michael surprised us all by walking in the front door. He kissed me and there was nothing quite like it. It was a passionate kiss filled with a year of longing. After a month of pure bliss, he had to go back. There goes my heart again...
To be continued....
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